The Secret Sauce to Turning Your Values Into Action in Midlife
- Becki Salzman
- Sep 4
- 2 min read

What If Knowing Isn't the Problem?
Can we stop pretending that more information is the answer? You could teach a masterclass in “How to Live Your Best Life”—except, let’s be honest, you’re still searching for the scene change. Why? Because knowing is just intellectual entertainment until you kick it into doing. And action, my friend, is where the magic (and the mayhem) happens—especially when your moves are powered by your own damn values.
The “Missing Link” (Hint: Not One More Workbook)
It’s not your fault. No one talks about the real gap—the action gap. You’ve got a PhD in personal growth but keep circling the same block. Enter coaching: not more “cheerleading,” but serious strategy. (FYI: My first coach launched me from passive bystander to hot mess express with purpose—and yes, I’m forever grateful.)
Why Action Feels Like Jumping into Shark-Infested Waters
Maybe you’re a chronic overthinker. Maybe you’re hooked on helping others at your own expense. Maybe change just screams “danger zone.” Here’s your spicy truth: when you act from your values, you sidestep drama and self-doubt like a boss. Path unclear? Join the club. You don’t need a crystal ball—just a little swagger. Pro tip: The Universe usually prefers detours anyway, so why not make your own road trip playlist?
Micro-Moves, Mega Impact (Get Ready to Flex)
Forget life overhauls. That’s Reality TV nonsense. Try these instead:
📱 Connection: Hit send on that “remember me?” text. Crash a book club. Volunteer for something weird.
🎉 Growth: Tackle a dance class. Paint badly on purpose. Sign up for the workshop you secretly rolled your eyes at.
🚧 Freedom: Draw epic boundaries. Actually say “no.” Practice your best “I’m unavailable, darling.”
Stack these little wins. Brag about them, even. Every move proves you’re ditching stuck for fabulous.
The Real Power of a Sustainable Plan (And a Coach Who Won’t Let You Ghost Yourself)
Here’s the spicy secret: Consistency is your superpower. Grand gestures fizzle, but daily value-driven decisions? That’s how you build a life so deliciously authentic, people stop you in the coffee line to ask how you did it. My job? Top-tier motivator, loving agitator, and professional drawer-of-lines in the sand. I’ll call out your brilliance and keep you honest. (Spoiler: You’ll love it.)
Ditch Knowing—Let’s Do Something Wild
Ready for the leap from “should” to “hell yes!”? Download my free Values Assessment, then claim your slot for a no-obligation chat or throw me your best/worst via email at beckisalzman@gmail.com.
Knowing is cute. Doing is next-level. Let’s break you out of stuck and into unforgettable. 👑💥
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