The Middle of Midlife: Why You’re Stuck…And 3 Moves That Actually Free You
- Becki Salzman
- Feb 12
- 2 min read

Listen — I know what you’re thinking: “If I have to hear ‘just embrace this season’ one more time…” 😩
You’re in midlife. You’re going through menopause. You’re juggling transitions like they’re duct-taped flaming swords. And you don’t feel like you, but you know there’s more for you than this rut. So what gives? 🤔
Here’s the deal:
You’re not stuck because you’re weak. You’re stuck because you’re perched right between what was and what’s next — and that in-between doesn’t come with a GPS. 🚗💨
Here are the 3 things women in midlife actually need right now:
1️⃣ Clarity, not chaos.
Dump platitudes. You need real, honest-to-God clarity on what you want next — not what everyone else thinks you should do.
2️⃣ A personalized roadmap.
No amount of scrolling, journaling, or Pinteresting will replace a plan built around you — your rhythms, your fears, your gifts.
3️⃣ Support that meets you where you actually are.
Because encouragement is cute. Accountability + strategy + truth-telling? That’s power.
And yes — leaving behind the person you were can feel like a mini-identity death. (Fun! Said no one ever 😆)
But that’s the pivot point. Not a dead end.
✨ The Coaching Difference
Coaching isn’t therapy, it isn’t life-planning with bullet points, and it isn’t another detox or habit challenge you’ll abandon by Wednesday.
Coaching is:
✅ A plan that fits your unique midlife body + brain
✅ A strategy for what comes after the overwhelm
✅ Someone to walk with you — and help you take action
✅ Tools that turn “I want” into “I am doing”
You don’t need to have your next chapter figured out. You just need someone who knows how to help you find it.
💭 Your Turn!
Comment below 👇
▶️ Where are you stuck right now?
▶️ What’s the one thing you keep thinking will fix everything — but it hasn’t?
▶️ I read every comment and will drop real responses because I get it.




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